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The No Contact Rule – How Does it Help Me Get My Ex Back?

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GET Your ex: howtogetbacktomyex.com Can the no contact rule really help me get my ex back? Yes, but it is a process of step by step personal evolution, and you must not skip a step. The next step to winning your ex back is one that most people over look…emotional evolution. You must get your life back before you can get your ex back, understand? No? Well keep reading and I will explain it to you…OK? How To Get Your Life Back Using The No Contact Rule Since you have broken off all communication with your ex, you will have more time to focus on yourself…if you’re smart. Most people just sit there and wait for 30 days to pass, and then attempt to reconnect with their ex again. The reason just about everyone fails is…they weren’t ready emotionally to reconnect, and they lose control of the process and set themselves back. “How can no contact help me get my ex back?” by using this time during no contact to work on yourself emotionally. I call this your personal and emotional evolution, and it is an evolution. You have to let go of the old relationship, and learn from the mistakes…that the both of you have made. The best way to do this is by keeping a personal journal, and writing down your daily feelings. Use this outlet to prevent you from contacting your ex and breaking NC. There are also many self help tools available in your local library to help with your emotional evolution as well, if you need it…go get some counseling too. Make no mistake, there is a tough

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  1. Saurabh Sood
    February 28th, 2013 at 05:33 | #1

    i have bbreakup after 3 year of relationship problem is des i was on guily side coz i didnt give her so much time and i did some crazy thing she loved me like anythng even i do i want her back because i realised d mistakes nd i want a chance plz help?? this is real good video thankz

  2. s4llymeetsh4rry
    February 28th, 2013 at 05:35 | #2

    Me too. I really appreciate it. It just seems like he really
    doesnt want to be with me from what assumptions Im
    making but I just need to play it cool as it says.Now,
    everybody wants us to get back now.:)) Anyway, I got
    all the advices from the program at the site:
    GettingBackTheEx.info

  3. flourbluffboy
    February 28th, 2013 at 06:01 | #3

    Does not wrk if the last 4 months she’s been seeing her ex fiance….lol while still with u

  4. RedG7272
    February 28th, 2013 at 06:25 | #4

    Hey Mike! I stopped texting 3 weeks ago. He text me a few days ago w a pic of him. Thinking he was missing me I said nice to see u I was just thinking a out u. No response and now nothing again. Don’t know what to do. Please help. Red

  5. deergawd
    February 28th, 2013 at 07:23 | #5

    No I still have her blocked. She’s like poison in my life and I want her out of it.

    I think it does work sometimes. But if you have to use tactics like that in your relationship, it’s never going to be a good relationship.

  6. carlos V
    February 28th, 2013 at 07:29 | #6

    dang wth thats crazy! have you talked to her yet?
    yea man i was so heartbroken when my ex left me but it was MY fault tho i was being a player n stuff. i tried this no contact rule and all it did was help me get over her. i was with her for 5 years .i think this is what the point of this rule is lol..

  7. TheDaDaDancer
    February 28th, 2013 at 08:01 | #7

    what if we living together…..do i have to move out…… thank you

  8. judes1998
    February 28th, 2013 at 09:01 | #8

    well what if u text ed them like every day and then they finally say I’m blocking your number would there still be a chance to get them back

  9. smellybridge
    February 28th, 2013 at 09:50 | #9

    What if you’re trying the ignore tactice but they still facebook/txt/email you?
    To me, this seems like it’s comforting to them, but it’s ballsing up my long term strategy.
    Do I just ignore them? That will just make them angry or frustrated (I know her).
    Dunno what to do 🙁

  10. Le’Will Brown
    February 28th, 2013 at 09:56 | #10

    I need to get started with NC asap cause my wife is furious at me and wants a divorce!

  11. deergawd
    February 28th, 2013 at 10:44 | #11

    one night she texted me saying she tried to choke herself to death, obviously a cry for attention. i ignored it. later we started talking again and she proposed to me. fucking crazy. i blocked her number.

  12. carlos V
    February 28th, 2013 at 10:47 | #12

    so what happend after that? if i may ask ..

  13. ERIC27359
    February 28th, 2013 at 11:21 | #13

    What if she lives 40 mins away and doesn’t have a phone I talked to her through her brother phone she broke up with me for getting angry to easy she’s stubborn though she said we should go separate ways yesterday so this is recent I’m trying the no contact right now even though I miss her like crazy plz respond she’s 18 btw and has bad influence friends that’s the problem

  14. TheMarden225
    February 28th, 2013 at 11:43 | #14

    Hey Mike, my ex girlfriend who broke up with me 6 months ago sent me a text 5 days ago. Have been in no contact since break up. Does she want me to respond. I haven’t as of yet. Advice?

  15. Ponchoman07
    February 28th, 2013 at 11:52 | #15

    @ Callie Gates: Your situation is different. If you plan to keep this baby, the father may or may not be in your life for a LONG time. Since he bolted upon learning u r pregnant, it appears he is irresponsible, does not love you, and does not WANT to be a father. You didn’t mention whether or not you love him, how old u r, whether u r financially stable, etc. You have much to consider. If you see this and would like some help, find me at Ponchoman94@yahoo.com (email). Good luck.

  16. Robertshaughnessy0
    February 28th, 2013 at 12:04 | #16

    I just split from my ex a few weeks ago i am a lil hurt n want her back she is saying she is done but her actions dont so im confused if there is anyone that has been thru this or a women that can give me a womens point of view or any good advice pls email me at trapstreet52@gmail.com i want her back but am not sure what i should be doing

  17. papit000
    February 28th, 2013 at 12:52 | #17

    i feel your pain but i cant seem to cry, not cuz of pride, its just tat i havnt yet or shes not worth crying over. i do really care for her though.

  18. papit000
    February 28th, 2013 at 13:06 | #18

    i feel u girl. thats what im wondering bcuz her and i have two kids 2 and 4.

  19. papit000
    February 28th, 2013 at 13:41 | #19

    what if you have kids with her that are not old enough to pick up the phone? I dont regret my kids. but i feel that i shouldnt have never delt with her in the first place

  20. Callie Gates
    February 28th, 2013 at 13:55 | #20

    Does this rule still apply to me if I’m pregnant? Shortly after we found out we were going to have a baby, he left me. somehow I still feel like I have to talk to him since I’m pregnant with his baby, but I’ve been trying to have no contact. I have absolutely no idea what to do right now!

  21. Depity218
    February 28th, 2013 at 14:36 | #21

    My boyfriend just dumped me (after 2 and a half yrs). I see him every morning (my ride for 2 more weeks)and I act like i’m fine and I dont call him anymore. After this I plan on not contacting him but rather him call me. I am so afraid it will backfire and he will think i’ve seriously moved on and go looking for someone else. I love him more than life itself I cry myself to sleep everynight .Its killing me not having him.What should I do? I am miserable without him.

  22. quicksilver2325
    February 28th, 2013 at 15:15 | #22

    Email me at quicksilver2325@gmail.com

  23. quicksilver2325
    February 28th, 2013 at 16:12 | #23

    Hey Michael,
    Thank you so much I really understand now my ex girlfriend and I need space. But I still love her more than anything.

  24. RITA1646
    February 28th, 2013 at 16:14 | #24

    Hey, can this be me?let me air my problem and solution out to other who are in need of solution to there problem.Since three month my boyfriend left me for another girl and if i call him he will switch his cell phone off and when he see me,he will disgrace me.But now he has come back to his senses by the power of spritspelltemple@yahoo.com i will use this opportunity to thank him and tell other that he his the right spell caster for any body

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    February 28th, 2013 at 16:47 | #25

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